Why ?.................Why do we all want to blame others for everything which is wrong or not in place and love to take credit for all good and right things ?
It’s totally natural and totally human to want the credit and also the flip-side of that is to not want to be unfairly blamed. And the fact is that dynamics of credit and blame can be unfair.Well It's amazing how many people deflect responsibility for their actions and choices and blame others or circumstances for their problems. While playing the "blame game" is common, too much deflection of responsibility is actually a self-defeating behavior pattern.
an issue with an overly dependent coworker who does not give credit is too common .and the best answer to it may be you should be more concerned about doing your job well than worrying about who gets credit .Well it is difficult practically !
Taking responsibility doesn't mean that we have total control over our destinies. In reality we all are affected by events beyond our control such as our genetic endowments, and a host of random, environmental factors.perhaps so many of us know someone who maybe, perhaps, might give themselves a little too much credit.And as a result, and out of fear of giving ourselves too much credit, we overcompensate their overcompensation, with under compensation.
Many people think that excuses are the replacement for results. And so if you take away excuses then people start to get results. So from now on whenever you blow it just simply say, "I blew it .
It’s totally natural and totally human to want the credit and also the flip-side of that is to not want to be unfairly blamed. And the fact is that dynamics of credit and blame can be unfair.Well It's amazing how many people deflect responsibility for their actions and choices and blame others or circumstances for their problems. While playing the "blame game" is common, too much deflection of responsibility is actually a self-defeating behavior pattern.
an issue with an overly dependent coworker who does not give credit is too common .and the best answer to it may be you should be more concerned about doing your job well than worrying about who gets credit .Well it is difficult practically !
Taking responsibility doesn't mean that we have total control over our destinies. In reality we all are affected by events beyond our control such as our genetic endowments, and a host of random, environmental factors.perhaps so many of us know someone who maybe, perhaps, might give themselves a little too much credit.And as a result, and out of fear of giving ourselves too much credit, we overcompensate their overcompensation, with under compensation.
Many people think that excuses are the replacement for results. And so if you take away excuses then people start to get results. So from now on whenever you blow it just simply say, "I blew it .
