"Insecurity exists in the absence of knowledge.He who is humble is confident and wise,he who brags{say in a boastful manner} is insecure and lacking" ..said by Unknown wise person.
A person might be insecure in any walk of life. A person who is insecure lacks confidence in their own value, and one or more of their capabilities, lacks trust in themselves or others, or has fears that a present positive state is temporary, and will let them down and cause them loss or distress by "going wrong" in the future. This is a common trait, which only differs in degree between people.causing negative feelings to overshadow our true worth. Having loads of insecure feelings cause one to enjoy less of life.
A parent might be insecure about his/her child that whether he/she would perform well in life? Job insecurity is also a consent these days when monetary favours are the essence of life in material world.Insecurity in relationship ,with body ,with friends ,Fears, doubts, past experiences and all other areas!every female as well as every male feels insecure at one time or another. It is just a natural emotion that we all have that is bound to come out. Insecurities could come from many things I suppose. From life circumstances to our education to our upbringing.
To overcome this feeling of insecurity is too inhuman if a person overcomes this insecurity feeling he would be termed as saint.but to fade this sense of insecurity we should do a self-reflection and list down the areas where we lack and voice out an explanation why we feel insecure.Take risks to change the current behavior and Take a rational approach to each problem, now find courage to take small steps in learning to experience success and overcoming the lack of belief .
Don't ever bring this feeling of insecurity and fear because it will always tarnish the aura of happiness and contentment in life ."Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent "here i want to conclude by this not so famous quote by Eleanor Roosevelt.
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