How many chances should we give to anyone !Forgiving once should be a habit but shall we
give anyone a second chance in this world knowing their shabby desires to ruin ourselves.
Is life an adventure or a meaningless exercise shall we take responsibility or blame others ?
Shall we access or ignore inner healing potentials ?Shall we find ways to express our emotions
or hold back and give up ? by answering these we either find hope or despair .
For a couple relations, If You’re married, I would always suggest trying to make it work no matter
what, but if you are not married, especially with no children between the two of you, then it’s up
to you whether or not YOU are willing to accept the situation and go forward with your ex in
working through your differences from there.When we break up, we break up for a reason.
Unless the reason no longer exists, you will find yourself revisiting the very issues that caused
you to break up once the cosy, rosy glow has worn off.
Now whatever those reasons are, when you consider whether you should give them another
chance, he needs to understand what the issues were and what caused the pain in your relationship.If someone doesn’t understand what they contributed to the pain, what is to stop them from repeating the same actions and putting you in the front line of pain again?Once you’ve already broken up, if you get back together for the wrong reasons, you can then end up being scared about questioning or discussing things, or creating ‘conflict’ for fear of breaking up again.
