Saturday, December 3, 2011

The Indian wedding

An Indian Wedding in northern part is more a religious ritual than a social ceremony. That is why; an Indian wedding is full of several traditional rituals and cultural customs being followed from centuries. It is an elaborate, expensive and emotional event full of sacred religious rituals and customs. For Indians, wedding is a grand affair that includes participation from each and every family member, relatives and even neighbors.Indian Wedding is not only a nuptial knot between two human beings rather it is a tie between two families.

First of all, a pre-wedding announcement is done through a formal engagement ceremony which is called Sagaai ,where both the families exchange gifts and good luck charms.As like every other wedding ceremony it takes about an hour or 2, but in tradition  celebrate weddings ceremony which takes about 3 days to complete! 

This tradition is an Indian wedding. So let’s get started. First of all they have to invite lots of people from around, then book some motels so that invited guest can have a good stay. And following that make arrangements for food for the guests, so hire some chefs. 

The bride and groom have to be ready for the 3 day marathon so, their bodies are covered and washed with turmeric (Haldi)paste which makes their body cool and fair. The first day includes some primary rituals which have to be done prior to the wedding. It longs for about 5 to 6 hours. After that there is buffet arrangement for the guests to have a good meal.

 The second day is the wedding day, this is the day full of trouble,the brides side, have to look for every single thing, which is in the hall for the groom side, that they don’t face any trouble regarding hospitality. Anybody who walked in through the entrance of the tent found a small hallway (still in the tent) which sprayed him or her with tropical scents. Inside the tent you would be greeted by lost of chair, cushions and a square stage in the centre of it all with a swing chair on it.Then after the wedding the new couple went off in a horse and carriage, and well the rest partied.